Phase Shift or Mind shift -"Quarter-Life Crisis."
The content of the blog is from a forwarded mail blended with my own...

• It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you don't know but at the same time you are scared to explore it because of the fear of complex....
• You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now....
• You start realizing that people are selfish and that maybe, those friends that you thought were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones....
• What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean, or insincere but that they are as confused as you in this phase....
• You look at your job...and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing in future, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you....
• Your opinions have gotten stronger.You have finally become more judgemental not just about materials,issues, situations but also for the class called people... You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't....
• You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused most of times....
• Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward....
• You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better.....
• You love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person....
• You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a perfect decision if it does exists...
• You worry about loans, money, and the future and making a life for yourself...and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!!!!
• What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.... We are in our best of times and worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.